I have never been so frustrated in my entire life. Let me just say that if you tell someone that you are going to do something, you should do it. If you make a promise to someone, you should keep it. If you don't stick to your word enough times, then you will be a liar.
Action must be taken.
Maybe people do these things to you so that you will leave them alone. Maybe that's the plan or something. maybe its working.